11 Ways to Use Your We-Vibe 4 Plus Vibrator

11 Ways to Use the We-Vibe 4 Plus Vibrator

The We-Vibe 4 Plus Vibrator is the most popular luxury couples sex toy for many reasons. It hits all the right spots for people with vulvas, can be used solo or with a partner, and there are lots of ways to use it!

What is the We-Vibe 4 Plus Vibrator?

The We-Vibe 4 Plus Vibrator is a unique vibrator shaped like a “C.” It fits in the palm of your hand, is rechargeable, and can be controlled by a remote or a free app for your smartphone.

The We-Vibe has a smaller and larger end. Each side can be controlled separately — giving you just the right amount of sensation for each spot.

There’s no one “right” way to use the We-Vibe 4 Plus.

The unique “C” shape makes this high quality luxury sex toy even more versatile. Here are a few things to keep in mind, no matter how you use your We-Vibe 4 Plus Vibrator:

  1. Be sure to use lots of water-based lubricant (my favorites are Sliquid Organics and Sliquid Sassy).
  2. Clean your toy before and after using it.
  3. You can try any of these positions on your own OR with a partner.
  4. Everyone’s body is different. Same goes for what feels good (and doesn’t feel good) to you. That means some of these ideas will work fantastically and bring you lots of pleasure. Others might not work so great or feel as good, and that’s ok too!
  5. Try more than once. Whenever you try something new, in the bedroom or out, the first few times are almost guaranteed to be awkward. So if you give one of these ideas a go and it doesn’t work perfectly at first, try again.

11 Ways to Use Your We-Vibe 4 Plus Vibrator

  1. Vibrating Vulva Toy: Like above, insert the smaller end of the We-Vibe into your vagina and let the larger end rest against your clitoris. Tap, press, or otherwise move the larger end however feels good to you! You also can move use the larger end as a handle to move the smaller end in and out of the vagina, put one end on either side of the clitoris, or use both ends to stimulate the labia (try gently pinching or pulling).
  2. Couple’s toy during vaginal intercourse. Insert the smaller end into your vagina. This side curves up and hits your G-spot.

    The slightly larger side stays outside the body against your clitoris. Your partner’s penis, fingers, or dildo go inside, underneath the vibrating end. Your partner may or may not feel the sensations from the inside arm of the toy. Either way, every time they thrust, you get pressure against your G-spot at the same time consistent vibration against your clitoris! 
  3. Vibrating Penis Toy: With lots of water-based lubricant (try Sliquid Organics), place the We-Vibe on either side of the penis. Stroke up and down, back and forth, or in a circular motion. Try doing this against the frenulum and coronal ridge, the area where the head of the penis meets the shaft.
    Tip: Check out the male anatomy [here]!
  4. Vibrating Penis Ring: Place the We-Vibe 4 Plus Vibrator in an upside-down U shape at the base of the penis or dildo. With every thrust, your clitoris and vulva lips are in contact with both vibrators. Plus the person with a penis gets some extra tingles along their shaft! This works best if the person “wearing” the We-Vibe is laying down.
  5. Anal Toy: Insert the smaller end of the the We-Vibe into the anus. Move the toy gently in and out, using the larger end as a handle and keeping the vibration on that end low so your hand doesn’t go numb. Or you can leave the toy in place with the larger end resting against the perineum (or t’aint, the area between the vaginal opening or balls and the anal opening).
  6. A Better Blowjob. Insert one side of the We-Vibe into the anus and place the other end against the scrotum. Have your partner give you a blowjob, stimulating the penis and scrotum with their mouth, tongue, and hands. And don’t forget the flavored lube to make oral sex more delightful!
  7. Ultimate Cunnilingus. Insert the smaller end of the We-Vibe 4 Plus Vibrator into the vagina and place the larger end on the perineum or inside the anus. Have your partner go down on you, using their mouth, tongue, and hands on your clitoris and labia.
  8. Double Penetration. Wear the We-Vibe as in option #1, with the larger end on the clitoris and the smaller end inside the vagina. Enjoy anal sex with a penis or dildo. To make it even more fun, massage the clitoris and/or balls at the same time.
  9. Underneath a Strap-On Harness. Wear the We-Vibe 4 Plus Vibrator as in option #1, with the larger end on your clitoris and the smaller end inside your vagina. Put on your favorite strap-on harness, with the clitoral end of the We-Vibe underneath it. This lets you enjoy clitoral stimulation while using the strap-on!
  10. Clitoral Stimulation for Two: Lay down and insert the We-Vibe as in option #1, with the larger end on your clitoirs. Have your partner straddle or lay on you, aligning your clitorises with the We-Vibe between them. Move back and forth, rotate your hips, thrust, or do whatever feels good to you both!
  11. Vibrating Panties: Put the We-Vibe in vaginally and go about your day! Because the toy is so quiet and small, it’s comfortable to wear and undetectable. Just be sure to charge the toy fully (you can check the battery life in the app) before your leave. Grocery shopping just got exciting again!

Written by Kait Scalisi, MPH, Director of Education and Training, My Secret Luxury

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