One evening in the summer of 2011, my husband and I were in New York City on a date night. After dinner, while strolling around Greenwich Village, we found ourselves in front of a sex shop. My husband and I are not terribly adventurous or particularly kinky. However, we are very much in love and make an effort to keep our marriage fun and exciting. Our goal when we walked into that store was mostly curiosity.
Rather than learning about some fun toys, or picking out a great massage oil, or buying some romantic scented candles, we walked out… empty handed. What should have been a fun and enticing experience left us feeling embarrassed and dirty – and not in a good way. I realized there had to be a better way to learn about adult products and inspire romance.
When I got home, I went online and struggled to find an online store that could offer the kind of products and experience that people like us would like.
So, one year later, My Secret Luxury was born. I started the business to deliver a luxurious, sophisticated, and discreet experience. I want men and women to learn about pleasure, discover innovative products, and shop in a secure environment where they can feel comfortable.
In the spring of 2013, I launched My Secret Soiree, a different kind of adult sex toy party in the NY Metropolitan Area (NYC – all 5 boroughs, NY, NJ, CT, and Long Island). In early 2015, we expanded with Concierges all over the United States teaching adults about sex education.
Just like I wanted a more upscale and less intimidating place to shop, I also wanted to change the way women (and men) shop for adult sex toys in their homes especially when it came to bachelorette parties, girls night out and adult birthday parties.
Before My Secret Soiree, adult sex toy parties were cheesy and not sophisticated. Parties were all about selling and pushing products — not educating about sex, sex toys and pleasure. Although our parties are still fun, we are not rauchy and are the luxury sex toy experts. We are the only adult sex toy party company that teaches sex education and offers only high quality adult toys and sex accessories, including all natural or organic personal lubricants, sexual stimulants and body lotions.
We do not private-label any of our products. All of our adult sex toys and sex accessories are from the best manufacturers, who have the highest quality standards.
A Team You Can Trust
Great education and healthy products are just party of the story, though. My Secret Soiree is made up of some of the top minds in sex education and sex toys parties. Our team is diverse, but we all believe in the same things. You’ll see our values in the way we treat you and educate you, and value your business.
Here is our leadership team:
Stacy, Founder & CEO
Kait, Director of Education & Training
Faye, Director, South Region
DeAnn, Director, Southwest Region