Sex Toy Parties
and Workshops

Have fun while learning about sex, sex toys and pleasure

Fun Sex Education

For Adults

How is My Secret Soiree different from the typical sex toy party?

Trained<br />
Sex Educators

Sex Educators

Not direct sales consultants



Non-toxic, environmentally-friendly products

NO<br />


No pressure to buy. It’s all about you and your pleasure.

SEX<br />


Everyone deserves pleasure

About Us

We are an sophisticated and fun in home adult sex toy party teaching sex education to adults. We offer only high quality adult products and organic or all-natural sex accessories with personalized consultations. All of our Concierges are trained sex educators — not sales professionals.

Learn more here.


Many adults have questions about sex, sex toys and pleasure . . . mainly because you were never taught about sexual health and wellness or about pleasure. That’s ok – you are not alone! It’s time to learn, and we are here to teach you! Come learn with us about sex, sex toys and pleasure.

See our blog here.

Customers Love My Secret Soiree and upscale sex toy parties!

  • I had a great party with Kate! She was energetic and fun. And knowledgeable and excited about the products. I was looking for something that my husband and I could use together and found just the thing in we vibe!

    Trish S
  • I had participated in the typical "sex toy parties" with my sorority sisters in college, but was looking for a more sophisticated, educational workshop-based experience to celebrate my 25th birthday with ten of my friends. Kait did an amazing job answering ALL of our questions, keeping the group focused (this isn't easy when wine is involved), and providing a customized session that was both informative and enjoyable. We were all laughing and feeling comfortable with the topics, but came away from the night feeling enlightened and more confident about our sex lives. The one on one session with Kait was a great way to open up if there was something we didn't feel comfortable saying in front of the whole party, and Kait recommended not just the products, but actions and ideas for enhancing our individual sex lives. I most enjoyed her advice on communicating what we want and need to our sexual partner(s). I would recommend Kait to any group of women looking to have an absolute blast while learning from an extremely professional, intelligent, and warm woman. Thanks again for making my birthday party unforgettable!

    Kat L.
  • Faye is very professional and informative! I have quiet a few friends who are in independent sales and she is the only one who I trust enough to ask my friends to take time out of their busy lives to come over and listen to her presentation in my home. If you are looking for professionalism and fun, she is your lady!

    Trista S
  • Dena was excellent! She was very knowledgeable and professional.

    Anonymous Group
  • My fiance and I were looking for the "next big thing" and we found it with My Secret Soiree. It was a fun and lighthearted evening, sexy not trashy. Thanks for the great night.

  • We had a fun-filled and educational night with My Secret Luxury! Even the people who were initially uncomfortable, ended up joining in the conversation. It was also easy to be discreet when ordering in a separate area from the other guests. It's nice to see products that don't look cheap and I was happy to pay a premium for high quality.

  • So much fun! Instant entertainment, totally knowledgeable, and a complete pleasure to be around! I've had two My Secret Soirees so far! Love it and so do my friends!

    Heather L.
  • Kait was wonderful! Very knowledgeable and she made everyone feel super comfortable.

    Michelle L
  • Stacy hosted an amazing secret soirée for my bachelorette party. At first everyone was very quiet and a little shy about the subject matter, but after awhile everyone loosened up and had a great time. It was such a fun experience to share with my closest girlfriends. It was not your typical bachelorette party, but when else can a bunch of girls talk about sex toys and lube! Now I have a bunch of fun new things to try on my honeymoon! Thanks, Stacy!

  • Kate did a great job in educating myself n everyone else at my soirée and had the patience to be a team player with my very loud family lol I already have been asked for her info from guests that did not attend and gave her great a recommendation!!!

    Natalie M
  • I'd just like to thank Kait for her patience with me while I planned my soiree for my friends bachelorette weekend. She was really great from the beginning to the end ! Accommodating and flexible! The party was a success and everyone had a great time! It was definitely a step above what I expected!

    Christine G
  • Kait is amazing. She made the party fun, educational and engaging. I would do this again and again not only for bachelorette parties but even for women bonding events. Fabulous fabulous experience. Words cannot express...just do it and see!

    Pam B
  • I love that this company is organic or all natural with products! They keep their clients health in mind when creating their products. Stacy came out to a birthday party I hosted, and everyone loved her and the company. She educated the ladies on themselves and why we all needs toys to help keep marriages alive after many years of being together. I would totally book this company again for another party!

    Amy S
  • Kait is amazing! I have had the pleasure of attending two of her soirees recently, and each one is better than the last. She fits right in with any group, she is knowledgeable , enthusiastic and communicative in her presentation and is confident with the products she sales. I look forward to many more soirees to come!

    Ashlie B
  • Professional amazing made the night unforgettable. Highly recommended .

    Maya EL Cheikh
  • I booked a session for my sisters bachelorette party. Not only was our host well informed of the crowd she would be presenting to, she was knowledgable and friendly as well!

  • The party was fantastic and our hostess was knowledge and fun!

    Heidi Balch
  • I had never hosted or attended a secret soiree (or anything of the kind) before and wasn't sure what to expect. Kait impressed me from the very first email interaction to the follow-up email she sent after the party. She is thorough, respectful, patient, knowledgeable, honest, down-to-earth, flexible and fun. My guests and I never felt pressured or uncomfortable. In fact, we had a blast and feel really enlightened, empowered, and excited post-soiree. I would definitely recommend Kait and the products she endorses. She really helped to take my party up a notch.

  • We worked with Kait to add a soiree to my best friend's bachlorette party. In short, the entire event was a great success. From start to finish Kait was professional, knowledgeable, fun, and incredibly attentive to our requests for the bachlorette. Overall, she was wonderful to work with and I would not hesitate to work with her again or recommend her to friends in the area. The event was exactly what we were looking for to add some surprise flare to the celebratory evening

    Avery H
  • I love the personalized attention I got from Bridget! She REALLY knows her business! Never have I EVER had a better experience. Just to know that someone so knowledgeable and courteous is just an email away is tremendous! Thank you Bridget and MY Secret Soiree!

    Teresita White
  • I enjoyed the party because the hostesses were fabulous. They made us feel comfortable with them and about ourselves. The party was good overall, however, it was hard to keep track of the name of the items and no prices on the customer 'menu' caused for too many questions and going back and forth. The hostesses were patient when these questions were asked and even brought the products out again for us to look at again. I'd highly recommend this line of products because our hostesses taught us about the materials and how our body reacts with the products. I expected a boring health education class but got a fun, funny, fabulous biology class. Nothing's better than learning and having fun at the same time!

    Yvonne L
  • The party was a hit! My hostess, Lisa S. was beyond amazing. She has the great energy where she made every woman at the party feel comfortable and ready to learn. I had women at the party open up, talk about sexuality, and even by products, that don't normally open up like that! It was wonderful to learn new information regarding sex and products in such a fun and open way. The entire event flew by, and left us all wanting more. We are definitely having another party where Lisa S. must be our guide once again! I've been recommending everywhere I go! Products are great as well, I really enjoy the fact that everything is natural, and crafted in a way that you know the items are unique. A+++ experience.

    Marisa O
  • We booked a Secret Soiree with Kait (and Maria) for a bachelorette party. No one knew what to expect, but they were so knowledgeable and prepared! Everyone had the best time and couldn't stop talking about it the next day. It was the perfect bachelorette activity and I would 100% recommend it to anyone looking to learn a ton and have lots of fun!



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