Sex Toy Parties
and Workshops

Have fun while learning about sex, sex toys and pleasure

Fun Sex Education

For Adults

How is My Secret Soiree different from the typical sex toy party?

Professional Sex Educators

Professional Sex Educators

Experts NOT pushy sales consultants



It’s about sex education and healthy pleasure — not selling cheap products



Non-toxic, environmentally-friendly products



Everyone deserves pleasure no matter your gender or sexuality

About Us

We are a sex education company who teaches pleasure-based sex education to adults — not a sex toy party company. We offer sex education classes, one-on-one consultations and the ability to purchase only high quality adult products and organic or all-natural sex accessories. All of our Educators are trained sex educators — not pushy sales people.

Learn more here.


Many adults have questions about sex, sex toys and pleasure . . . mainly because you were never taught about sexual health and wellness or about pleasure. That’s ok – you are not alone! It’s time to learn, and we are here to teach you! Come learn with us about sex, sex toys and pleasure.

See our blog here.

Customers Love My Secret Soiree because we teach sex education and don’t pressure you to buy products!

  • I love that this company is organic or all natural with products! They keep their clients health in mind when creating their products. Stacy came out to a birthday party I hosted, and everyone loved her and the company. She educated the ladies on themselves and why we all needs toys to help keep marriages alive after many years of being together. I would totally book this company again for another party!

    Amy S
  • Dena was excellent! She was very knowledgeable and professional.

    Anonymous Group
  • Kait is amazing! I have had the pleasure of attending two of her soirees recently, and each one is better than the last. She fits right in with any group, she is knowledgeable , enthusiastic and communicative in her presentation and is confident with the products she sales. I look forward to many more soirees to come!

    Ashlie B
  • We worked with Kait to add a soiree to my best friend's bachlorette party. In short, the entire event was a great success. From start to finish Kait was professional, knowledgeable, fun, and incredibly attentive to our requests for the bachlorette. Overall, she was wonderful to work with and I would not hesitate to work with her again or recommend her to friends in the area. The event was exactly what we were looking for to add some surprise flare to the celebratory evening

    Avery H
  • I'd just like to thank Kait for her patience with me while I planned my soiree for my friends bachelorette weekend. She was really great from the beginning to the end ! Accommodating and flexible! The party was a success and everyone had a great time! It was definitely a step above what I expected!

    Christine G
  • Fantastic workshop with lots of new information for even a sex nerd like me. I really loved having the evidence-based lube pamphlet and I also appreciated DeAnn's use of gender-neutral terminology while discussing varying toy uses.

    Corinne McLeod
  • Stacy hosted an amazing secret soirée for my bachelorette party. At first everyone was very quiet and a little shy about the subject matter, but after awhile everyone loosened up and had a great time. It was such a fun experience to share with my closest girlfriends. It was not your typical bachelorette party, but when else can a bunch of girls talk about sex toys and lube! Now I have a bunch of fun new things to try on my honeymoon! Thanks, Stacy!

  • So much fun! Instant entertainment, totally knowledgeable, and a complete pleasure to be around! I've had two My Secret Soirees so far! Love it and so do my friends!

    Heather L.
  • The party was fantastic and our hostess was knowledge and fun!

    Heidi Balch
  • I had never hosted or attended a secret soiree (or anything of the kind) before and wasn't sure what to expect. Kait impressed me from the very first email interaction to the follow-up email she sent after the party. She is thorough, respectful, patient, knowledgeable, honest, down-to-earth, flexible and fun. My guests and I never felt pressured or uncomfortable. In fact, we had a blast and feel really enlightened, empowered, and excited post-soiree. I would definitely recommend Kait and the products she endorses. She really helped to take my party up a notch.

  • We had a fun-filled and educational night with My Secret Luxury! Even the people who were initially uncomfortable, ended up joining in the conversation. It was also easy to be discreet when ordering in a separate area from the other guests. It's nice to see products that don't look cheap and I was happy to pay a premium for high quality.

  • DeAnne was wonderful! She was very informative, but did so in a fun way. She answered any questions we had and made sure everyone felt comfortable. I would definitely recommend her to anyone!

    Kim Craddock
  • I booked a session for my sisters bachelorette party. Not only was our host well informed of the crowd she would be presenting to, she was knowledgable and friendly as well!

  • I had a great party with Kate! She was energetic and fun. And knowledgeable and excited about the products. I was looking for something that my husband and I could use together and found just the thing in we vibe!

    Trish S
  • The party was a hit! My hostess, Lisa S. was beyond amazing. She has the great energy where she made every woman at the party feel comfortable and ready to learn. I had women at the party open up, talk about sexuality, and even by products, that don't normally open up like that! It was wonderful to learn new information regarding sex and products in such a fun and open way. The entire event flew by, and left us all wanting more. We are definitely having another party where Lisa S. must be our guide once again! I've been recommending everywhere I go! Products are great as well, I really enjoy the fact that everything is natural, and crafted in a way that you know the items are unique. A+++ experience.

    Marisa O
  • Professional amazing made the night unforgettable. Highly recommended .

    Maya EL Cheikh
  • Kait was wonderful! Very knowledgeable and she made everyone feel super comfortable.

    Michelle L
  • Kate did a great job in educating myself n everyone else at my soirée and had the patience to be a team player with my very loud family lol I already have been asked for her info from guests that did not attend and gave her great a recommendation!!!

    Natalie M
  • Kait is amazing. She made the party fun, educational and engaging. I would do this again and again not only for bachelorette parties but even for women bonding events. Fabulous fabulous experience. Words cannot express...just do it and see!

    Pam B
  • My fiance and I were looking for the "next big thing" and we found it with My Secret Soiree. It was a fun and lighthearted evening, sexy not trashy. Thanks for the great night.

  • We booked a Secret Soiree with Kait (and Maria) for a bachelorette party. No one knew what to expect, but they were so knowledgeable and prepared! Everyone had the best time and couldn't stop talking about it the next day. It was the perfect bachelorette activity and I would 100% recommend it to anyone looking to learn a ton and have lots of fun!



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